Poss 1st timers, wife interested but hesitant. Info please.

[Newd]

It's going to be funny seeing your after trip report and how you decided to stay the whole time and regret not going straight to Desire from the airport when you first landed... Happens to the best of us... hope you have a great time and don't come home with too much regret

That might be my report, but I'm still unsure about how my wife is going to do with this experience.

She sounds pretty committed to going topless. Says she reserves the right to rid herself of the bottoms. Is getting interested in the "themes" for the nights at the dance club. Shopping body chains and bikini bottoms.

I think she's actually more excited about this than she is letting on. But I can't be sure. She might be making plans for divorce as we speak!

[mrstommer]

mr. Tommer and I did a similar thing last summer. We planned the first part of our vacation to Desire Riviera Maya and the second part to Secrets Maroma. We did this intentionally to have time to 'debrief' about our first time at RM Desire. It did what it was supposed to do.

We needed the time to unwind and talk about how we felt about the RM experience. If you have never actually experienced it, you need this time. Maybe it is a womanly thing. And what it wrong with that? Because of our time to 'debrief', we are now returning to Mexico to only Desire Pearl.

I am so excited and together, we look for and shop for sexy things to wear after our day at the beach. The experience has boosted my self-confidence, and I think tommer appreciates that!

[Newd]

How hard is it to get dinner? Is it necessary to have a reservation for the restaurants?

BTW, thanks for all the replies. This turned out to be an informative thread for us.

I've looked at the February booking thread,but it seems as if there are several people that are quite a few people that have mentioned Feb. but haven't posted in that thread.

Getting more excited and more nervous the closer we get.

[2naked]

Dinner is 1st come 1st served unless you want a Hibachi table at Suki.

[candtdesire07]

Short & to the point.
We had the same feelings as you (as most of us had as first timers)
Our first trip was a "why not, lets just do it once". My wife was fully naked after a couple hours & we never looked back. We will be taking our 5th trip this year

You can be as naughty or as nice as you want. Nude, partially nude or not nude. Its clothing optional & its YOUR vacation.
We have never had a problem with pushy people. Everyone is respectful & nobody is offended by a polite "no thank you".

You make your vacation your own. Please each other & you can't go wrong.

[EmmDubEff]

This is not a response per se, more of our own question that somehow fits into this thread. We are going to Pearl in April for our first time.In our couple situation, the wife is the full-time participant (I join in with her only). This does not seem to be the conventional lifestyle "lifestyle". Will this be problematic at Pearl or will there be opportunity for us to do our thing?

Hoping that the more frequent visitors to Desire can answer this one.

Thanks

[candtdesire07]

This is not a response per se, more of our own question that somehow fits into this thread. We are going to Pearl in April for our first time.In our couple situation, the wife is the full-time participant (I join in with her only). This does not seem to be the conventional lifestyle "lifestyle". Will this be problematic at Pearl or will there be opportunity for us to do our thing?

Hoping that the more frequent visitors to Desire can answer this one.

Thanks

Everyone has their own rules & boundaries. You will not have a problem.
I'm sure there will be pleanty of opportunities for "play" as well as alone time.
No worries, there are others with your same "lifestyle" & even more willing to help you out

[EmmDubEff]

Everyone has their own rules & boundaries. You will not have a problem.
I'm sure there will be pleanty of opportunities for "play" as well as alone time.
No worries, there are others with your same "lifestyle" & even more willing to help you out

Thanks for the response. Countdown to Desire has begun.....

[Gunnert]

I too can't wait for the trip report when you get back. I'm laughing thinking about just how much fun you having as I type..

[daveandlori]

Our first time, we arrived at Desire Cabo quite apprehensive about the whole idea. My wife has the same issues I've read about here, and it took a couple of days for her to lose her bikini bottoms. Once we realized how relaxed, non-threatening, and non-judgmental the atmosphere is, though, we couldn't wait to get naked. No one bothers you, people are friendly and/or will ignore you if you prefer. We have been to all kinds of resorts in many different beautiful places over the years, but none of them compares to Desire, IMO. I don't think we'll ever visit a non-naked resort again!