Asking for clarification on dress codes

[TitanTn]

Just wanting to confirm so we know what to expect and how to pack.

Pearl restaurant and even other dinner locations - this is clear, understandable and I've got it. No issues. Men: long pants, button shirt, closed shoes - looking dapper. Women: as sexy as you want to make it (awesome)

But my real question is about breakfast and lunch - and specifically for men. I think I understand the answer for women is some form of a cover-up - again, as sexy as you want to make it. That seems to be the general consensus anyway. But for men I'm not so sure. In places people have mentioned shorts, t-shirt, sandals. But in other places I've seen it posted as: no shorts, no sleeveless shirts, and no open-toed shoes. So could someone clarify men's attire for breakfast and lunch? Maybe it differs depending on where you eat? But also let me know if I've misstated anything else. Thanks.

[b&t2003]

For Breakfast: for men - shorts, t-shirts, swim trunks, candles etc... very casual

[TitanTn]

Thanks - that makes sense. And I assume it's the same for lunch?

[mikeinnj]

Same for lunch unless you eat around the pool and get a pizza or something off the grill and then you don’t have to go inside so you don’t have to get dressed.

[TitanTn]

Excellent. Thanks for clearing that up.

[EmptyNesters]

At breakfast, I either put on a pair of board shorts or wrap a sarong around me along with a T shirt that makes people read it and flip flops.

[TitanTn]

Excellent. Thanks for the info - exactly what I was wanting to understand. But now that the men's dress code is more clear... did I have the women's dress code correct? "It really doesn't matter for any meal other than wearing something that can be loosely defined as a top, and something that provides material to sit on."

[Luckman]

TitanTn,

Our experience is what you are saying about the ladies. Something on the top and bottom is all that is required. For example when we go in two weeks, my lady will be wearing a sexy dress to dinner that is very, very low cut and has a wonderful habit of allowing nipple slip. It is very short. Also, for lunch she has a coverup that allows a delightful view of her beautiful breasts.

Luckman

[TitanTn]

Perfect. Thanks. My wife will also be wearing items similar to that, but if she's in the clear minority, she'll be self-conscious and uncomfortable. I'm wanting to make sure she's not uncomfortable, and even more importantly that no one on the staff says she's not dressed appropriately. That would be embarrassing for her.

[MidlifeMountainCpl]

Great information. Thank you all for the input. Can't wait for our trip in November
MMC