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Obviously I can't find any "real" pictures on the web. We are planning for March 2014. When out of town, my wife will usually go braless and pantyless. Sometimes it's obvious and sometimes not. But now I would hope to be able to take it up a notch. I know with the swimwear there will be no issues because everything 'water"is clothing optional. How sexy or skimpy or revealing can be worn at the non-nude areas such as at dinner, bar, disco or in general while on the property?

Tell her to slut it up. Mesh, see thru, body paint, etc.

There really isn't anything too revealing for dinner and the disco. See-thru, mesh, ultra-short to where it shows everything when she sits down... sky's the limit. I (Rhonda) wear cut-down-to-there and slit-up-to-there dresses with heels that look fabulous up in the air and am hardly ever the most risque. Some good sites for dinner attire ideas are mydivascloset.com, flirtcatalog.com, foreplaycatalog.com, ilikeitsexy.com. For the theme nights, go skimpier, the less the better.

missk0317 wrote:There really isn't anything too revealing for dinner and the disco. See-thru, mesh, ultra-short to where it shows everything when she sits down... sky's the limit. I (Rhonda) wear cut-down-to-there and slit-up-to-there dresses with heels that look fabulous up in the air and am hardly ever the most risque. Some good sites for dinner attire ideas are mydivascloset.com, flirtcatalog.com, foreplaycatalog.com, ilikeitsexy.com. For the theme nights, go skimpier, the less the better.

Thanks, I have some sources of where to purchase. My concern is that she would feel uncomfortable if she was the only one over exposed at dinner or elsewhere where nudity or skimpy wasn't the norm, such as at dinner.

smesa02 wrote:

missk0317 wrote:There really isn't anything too revealing for dinner and the disco. See-thru, mesh, ultra-short to where it shows everything when she sits down... sky's the limit. I (Rhonda) wear cut-down-to-there and slit-up-to-there dresses with heels that look fabulous up in the air and am hardly ever the most risque. Some good sites for dinner attire ideas are mydivascloset.com, flirtcatalog.com, foreplaycatalog.com, ilikeitsexy.com. For the theme nights, go skimpier, the less the better.

Thanks, I have some sources of where to purchase. My concern is that she would feel uncomfortable if she was the only one over exposed at dinner or elsewhere where nudity or skimpy wasn't the norm, such as at dinner.

When it comes to dinner attire for the women, she would not be the only women dressed to impress, no worries there.

I have been at a table with a woman who was wearing nothing but paint and a thong. She is more likely to be uncomfortable by wearing something too conservative.

We prefer 'dress to impress' rather than the skanky ho look for dinner - but that's just us.

If you really want to stick out in terms of clothes as a woman at Desire, you have two options.

Option one- Be completely bare-ass-naked in a restaurant (not that you really COULD...)- a big 70s bush would help.
Option two- Wear a very conservative outfit. I mean super conservative.

Seriously, you can't hardly overdo it. My girlfriend regularly walked into the lobby naked to ask about stuff on our last trip, and I didn't see anyone bat an eye. I'm sure there could have been some newbie couples nervously checking in that would have been absolutely floored, but what better a reception for the nervous than a hot young redhead casually walking in naked? I'm pretty sure I went in there naked to ask for a bandaid once too.

I suppose that if you had a wardrobe of hardcore leather and walked around with a metal studded bridle and leash on all the time people might stare, but on leather night even that probably wouldn't be too over the top. In short the risque-ness can't be overdone,

CLG wrote:

smesa02 wrote:

missk0317 wrote:There really isn't anything too revealing for dinner and the disco. See-thru, mesh, ultra-short to where it shows everything when she sits down... sky's the limit. I (Rhonda) wear cut-down-to-there and slit-up-to-there dresses with heels that look fabulous up in the air and am hardly ever the most risque. Some good sites for dinner attire ideas are mydivascloset.com, flirtcatalog.com, foreplaycatalog.com, ilikeitsexy.com. For the theme nights, go skimpier, the less the better.

Thanks, I have some sources of where to purchase. My concern is that she would feel uncomfortable if she was the only one over exposed at dinner or elsewhere where nudity or skimpy wasn't the norm, such as at dinner.

When it comes to dinner attire for the women, she would not be the only women dressed to impress, no worries there.

Cool. I'd like for her nipples to be visible. Whether they were slipping out or just noticeable under the fabric. I know she will be in to it if she is not alone.

SJCrazy wrote:If you really want to stick out in terms of clothes as a woman at Desire, you have two options.

Option one- Be completely bare-ass-naked in a restaurant (not that you really COULD...)- a big 70s bush would help.
Option two- Wear a very conservative outfit. I mean super conservative.

Seriously, you can't hardly overdo it. My girlfriend regularly walked into the lobby naked to ask about stuff on our last trip, and I didn't see anyone bat an eye. I'm sure there could have been some newbie couples nervously checking in that would have been absolutely floored, but what better a reception for the nervous than a hot young redhead casually walking in naked? I'm pretty sure I went in there naked to ask for a bandaid once too.

I suppose that if you had a wardrobe of hardcore leather and walked around with a metal studded bridle and leash on all the time people might stare, but on leather night even that probably wouldn't be too over the top. In short the risque-ness can't be overdone,

Nothing too over the top. Just more than risque than normal. Some prudes would disapprove. As I mentioned before, she goes braless when out of town but sometimes she gets uncomfortable about certain looks from certain people with double standards. My wife's tits are spectacular when braless.

Sounds like I will have no problem wearing some sexy silky very low cut lingere to dinner. I have black lace dress that is completely see through and that is completely bare at the back to the top of my behind with just a piece of material connecting at the back of my shoulders. I was thinking of a black G string with sexy leather booty shoes. Is that too crazy for dinner? I find it looks super sexy but when does something look skanky?

What is skanky at Desire?

CokeMann.....that's a pretty breezy cool looking top....have you ever seen one like it at dinner?

SLINON wrote:CokeMann.....that's a pretty breezy cool looking top....have you ever seen one like it at dinner?

Yes, many

On the nights that Aquiles(the body painter) is there, many ladies who get painted choose to go to dinner in just their artwork.

Is there any way one can find out when the body painter is going to be there?? I would LOVE to see my wife go for dinner in body paint

westcpl wrote:Is there any way one can find out when the body painter is going to be there?? I would LOVE to see my wife go for dinner in body paint

Aquiles is usually there two nights during the week. Which nights vary by season and by Aquiles schedule. When you arrive just ask any of the ECs or Adriana. the guest services manager which night(s) he will be there.