by Crossling » Sat May 10, 2025 5:03 pm
My wife and I went to DP our first time in 2017 and again a year or so later and have since been to RM twice, but we haven't been since Eden's construction.
There are a few nude places where we live where it is clothing option so we have absolutely zero qualms about being naked where it is permitted even if others aren't.
While we are in the life style, we aren't the type of people to just try to f**k everyone. Especially when there is an access amount of alcohol usually consumed. We get to know a few people during our stay and, if things feel right, we will engage with them. In our four trips, we have been 'intimate' with two couples. My wife has kissed a handful more women then that but we have only truly had sex with each other. We love being naked, we love playing volley ball and being fed margarita's in Mexico. We absolutely love the vibe of walking through the resort at night with all of the color changing lights illuminating the trees. It is serene and feels like home. We enjoy making friends while we are there and I enjoy f**king her until her legs don't work anymore in front of everyone in the jacuzzi or on the beds. So I greatly appreciate the feedback that everyone has provided regarding how DRM may have changed over the years. Since we are only loosely in the lifestyle when we are there, we aren't terribly worried about that as it won't spoil the fun we will have. But I also understand the disappointment, especially when the abundance of that type of behavior seems to have been the foundation for why a lot of you have fallen in love with the resort. I will agree with what a few users have said. The first couple of times you visit a Desire resort, especially if you have never been to something similar, is quite an experience. My wife and I had never actually been on a 'vacation' before going to Pearl. We got married in 2014 and our trip to Pearl in 2017 was kind of our honeymoon and we were blown away. So much so that, even after just a week there, it felt like we were leaving a part of ourselves behind when we left. The second trip, my wife actually started crying the morning we had to leave. RM definitely gave a much different vibe, but one we enjoyed equally. But we have absolutely gotten used to Desire now where we still have a fantastic time, but it doesn't hit us as hard when we have to leave.