Trying To Decide

[DDfun]

We are trying to decide Desires, Temptations, or Hedo. I know this is a Desires site, but we would like to know the differences between the three. We were at GP in January and hubby did a body shot off my naked boobs the first night, it was fun and nobody complained, but it was an older atmosphere, and I think it was the only boobs anyone seen lol. We have no complaints about GP it was a great place, and great people. We are looking for a more erotic time. Drinking isn't a problem but we are way out of practice, and worry about keeping up. We are not in the lifestyle, but enjoy exploring different things, and are open minded. Again we are still trying to decide, and would like some opinions and info. Thanks Double D

[mfay]

Of course you'll get a lot of different opinions on that according to who you ask- but as you said this is a Desire site !

Temptations tends to be a younger crowd (not exclusively though at all) where a lot of singles and young couples get their first taste of an adults only party resort that allows topless in some areas. It is a definitely a party resort. The food and facilities aren't up to Desire standards but not bad at all.

Hedo is the "old" standard of an adult party resort. Emphasize the "old" part. The general feeling is that it has gone severely downhill in the past few years. Lots of complaints about substandard food, lack of facilities maintenance, etc. As it has always been, Hedo allows singles- including some local men- and that becomes a problem for some because of those who like who hang around and leer or try to join in where they aren't invited. Hedo also separates the resort in two- a nude side and a prude side. Generally the guests on the nude side can get pretty prickly about people wearing clothes on the nude side. In general Hedo does have a party atmosphere much like temptations but with much more lifestyle activity and the crowd on the nude side is generally older on average.

Desire is more upscale in every way than either of the other two. The atmosphere- in the opinion of those of us who love it- is much classier and more erotic. It is couples only- no singles. It is lifestyle "friendly" but as you can see in one of the polls here on this site there are at least as many guests who do not consider themselves to be in the lifestyle as there are those who do. Some weeks at Desire you won't find as much of a party as you might at the other two- that varies with the crowd. What you will always find is much better service, better food and facilities, fellow guests who are friendly and open but rarely ever pressuring, and the opportunity to express your sexual side openly in whatever way you wish without ever having to worry about it bothering anyone else. In our experience about 95 % of all the couples visiting Desire for the first time fall in love with it and many find it to be a life changing experience !

[oldseadog]

We've been to all of them and wouldn't go anywhere but Desire now - funds permitted of course.

[FRANCODOA]

We have been to all of them too. Both Hedos (when H3 was still open), both Desires (when Cabo was still open), and Temptations Cancun. We agree with Mike when he says Hedo is the "old"...... Old & rundown, and at least used to tend to be an older crowd (than Hedo 3). While Desire is not the full out party atmosphere of Hedo, it is a notch above in every other way.

If yall are brave enough for body shots at the bar, you're ready for Desire (vs. Temptations).